True story: 'Men prefer phony women'

Being transparent with everybody is a life choice! Due to moral hygiene, it's better not to complicate our lives with tangled combinations, juggling, or secrets, but rather to say out loud what we think.

Men should be approached with the same attitude, because this way we save precious time, by telling exactly how we feel about an option or another. Plus it's easier to find out whether there is a a compatibility, or not!

But this strategy isn't too fruitful, despite the fact that men sustain they want sincere women. They even whine that women are slick and are hard to be allured, out from a nasty game in order to squeeze out more from her next "capture". Yes, it's true, there is this type of women in the world. Yet, when they encounter a perfectly direct and transparent lady, they back off!

The problem isn't necessary regarding the attraction! Here's an example, but with similar scenery seen in more men:

So, a lady met a 30 year-old man she felt attracted to since the first moment. She had the feeling that it's even mutual, so she was expecting things to evolve somehow. They met at least weekly, due to hectic schedule at work, the situation didn't change much from the first base level of smiles and hints, but nothing more serious than that. Then, she decided to take initiative and contacted him on Facebook, to try to approach him and talk things, other than job, interest, passion, stuff. He was almost defensive, at first, like he didn't expected her obvious interest in him. But later on, he adjusted his attitude and seemed like he enjoyed that. They had a few successful dates, in which he expressed his admiration for her courage to be direct and honest, which is a seldom quality to find in women. She was very pleased to see how he perceived her.

But, oddly, this admiration stagnated. She felt like something prevented him to be himself and to be direct, as well, so at some point she decided to take a break and wait to see if he's trying to make a step toward her. That never happened.

Things got sort of clear, eventually, from her point of view, when there was a party at the job and there came several colleagues from all other cities. Then, she had the occasion to see LIVE that the guy is not shy, but he doesn't appreciate sincere women, neither. He's more into other type of women. He almost drool in front of a slick woman from the company, along with other males around her. That other lady was that type of arrogant woman, who flirts with all, but who measures them in the same time throughout her eyelashes and gives a rank for their potential. Each company has a woman like that, whom all men would like to have at least once.

The biggest disappointment for our hero is that she could see how he stayed in the line of admirers for that catchy lady. He didn't feel the need to distinguish himself from other men.

That was the moment when our woman completely gave up expecting anything more from him. She felt sad to see his behaviour toward her was still unchanged, like nothing happened. So she felt the need to ask him one day how come he is attracted to that kind of women, when he claims he appreciates so much honesty? He replied with the same sincerity that he is a man and that sometimes he doesn't think with his upper head. That was just not satisfying enough, so she decided to put an end to that possible relationship.

That type of hypocrisy is not encountered only in men. But it's frustrating to hear other people, men or women, whining that others are not honest with them.

Dear people, you get what you offer! Be honest with yourselves and that's what you will get from others.