5 reasons you should break up
Sometimes you just fell it's not ok. It just clicks to you one day and you know that you're not in the right place. Maybe you're just not compatible or don't share the same set of values, life approaches, hobbies or whatever and spending more time together will be a waste.
However, ending a serious relationship is a life-changing decision, so one should be ready for it when it happens. Here are five reasons why ending an inappropriate relationship is good for you:
Relief.
Though it might be a lot of suffering and pain involved, the decision feels good. It's a state of simultaneous pain and peace – it sounds weird, but it's not. In the end, this relief feeling is worth every tear and as time goes by, you'll realize more and more that it was the right decision.
You're no longer stuck.
Now you can finally move forward and work only for your own good. Now you can do whatever you want and no one’s opinion can stop you.
Find a new hobby, travel, move into a new place, take a course, change your job or even your wardrobe or hairstyle.
It's possible that you have no clue on how much this relationship holds you back.
You'll feel proud of yourself.
Most of the important things in our life are scary at first. But every step into the unknown, every challenge completed made us better, stronger and who we are today. Break-ups are really tough, but when you get through, you'll feel a boost of self-confidence and self-worth that will confirm that you made the right choice.
You both deserve honesty.
You should never pretend that you're happy or defend your relationship to others or to yourself. When it doesn't feel right, don't force it. A circle will never fit into a square, no matter how hard you try.
Healing.
The true healing feels absolutely wonderful and it teaches you a lot about life and will you with your future relationships.